I recently had cataract surgery on both of my eyes. For a two-week period I had one “good” (right) eye and one “bad” (left) eye since most eye surgeons do not perform the surgery on both eyes at the same time. It was challenging during that two-week time frame because I could no longer wear my bifocal glasses.  They had been rendered useless the first day. My left eye is the dominate eye so it still needed them, but my right didn’t since I had upgraded to a multifocal lens that would eliminate the need for glasses for the most part.  I read a lot for both work and pleasure so I still needed my reading glasses to read my Bible and other really fine print for my left eye to be effective and because my right eye was still healing and adjusting. I didn’t need glasses at all for distance or for using the computer.

I often found myself covering up one eye and comparing it to the other eye. The difference was quite remarkable. I would tell people it is like the difference between regular TV and HD. However, the most notable difference happened last week while I was getting a pedicure. I must have been bored because I found myself covering my eyes one at a time to see how they compared after almost two weeks.

Thank goodness, I was there early on a Saturday morning and there weren’t a lot of people looking at the crazy lady covering her eyes one at a time while uttering “whoa” out loud in complete amazement.

When I covered my left eye, I could see bright white walls, sparkling color and HD like definition to the things around me. When I covered my right eye, it was looking through a golden-brown filter that left everything looking dull, dirty and fuzzy. Letters were often in double vision.  I was stunned by the difference. I hadn’t noticed the stark difference until I looked at the light-colored walls under the light of a brightly lit nail salon.

Then on Sunday, during my evening “prayer walk”, I thought about the upcoming second part of cataract surgery to replace the lens on the left eye. I thanked God for the success of the surgery on the right eye and I prayed that the second surgery would be just as successful. After a slight chuckle over my antics at the nail salon the day before, I remembered my optometrist trying to convince me over the last few years that I needed the surgery. I kept putting it off telling him I was “too young” and that I could see just fine as long as I had new glasses. He said that new glasses wouldn’t do any good since it was the presence of the cataracts that was impairing my vision. He said, “You will be surprised after you have the surgery. You have just gotten used to not being able to see clearly.”

As I pondered this, my prayer changed from my physical eyes to the eyes of my heart. Have I been walking with a cloudy, golden-brown filter that distorted what my heart could see? Have I become accustomed to not being able see the things of God clearly?  Am I confused by  double vision? 

So, I prayed Psalm 119:18.

“Open my eyes that I may see wonderful things in your law.”

Oh, Lord, give me a new lens for my heart. I want to see things fresh, new, bright and clear. Open my eyes to see the hidden treasures in your Word. Remove the cataracts of my heart and help me see the world through your eyes under the bright light of Jesus.



Father, create in me a pure heart and renew a steadfast spirit within me. Search me, O God and  know my heart. Test me and know my anxious thoughts. See if there is any offensive way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting. (Psalm 51;10, 139:23-24)

I begin this post today  with this  prayer from Psalms . Why? Because, honestly, I’m a little scared. God has placed a wonderful desire in my heart to learn to study His Word. But, the desire is not just for me to hold on to for myself; it’s a  desire to share and teach others what I have learned.

Disobedience to His call will kill the desire, pride will kill the desire, procrastination will kill the desire, doubt, sin, unfaithfullness and many more things will also kill the desire….all of which I am guilty.

God placed A Heart Him on my heart a few years ago as a tool to share the things that I have learned with others. I have not been faithful to the call.  I pray to change that with this wonderful second chance (or is it the third, fourth or hundreth chance?) I may not have been faithful to the call but God is always faithful!

Tools for Lifetime  are tips and methods that I have learned over the last few years from well known teachers. Each teacher has a style and method all their own, but I have discovered that they flow together beautifully. Each method I learn builds on or enhances the understanding of the one before, until BOOM, it makes sense and, above all….it WORKS. Scripture has opened up like never before. It’s mind blowing! It’s exciting! (see the SLOW DOWN post coming soon!)

Tools for a Liftime will be a small group at my church. However, I pray that those of you who read the posts will know that, from the bottom of my heart, the posts are not intended to be an “advertisment” for that group . My desire is that somehow, through these tips that are posted, God will stir a hunger in hearts and begin to open doors for people who want to read his Word and understand what it says.

Ask and you will receive, seek and you will find, knock and the door will be opened to you.

I love you all and may God give us hearts that are open, eyes that see, and ears that hear.






It’s NOT about me!

I recently read the book, IF, by Mark Batterson. In the book he asks “If money was not an issue and you knew you could not fail, what you be doing?” My immediate response was I would spend hours and hours in His Word, studying and sharing what I learn. The author then prompts this response “What if I started living it, even if?

So today, while doing my Bible Study homework for the Armor of God Bible Study by Priscilla Shirer, I read her reference to Ezekiel 36:24-32. I know that we are not to read things into the Bible that aren’t meant to be, such as, in this passage Ezekiel is talking about the restoration of Israel and not to me personally. However, the Bible is timeless. It is also how God speaks to you and me.

The amazing thing about this whole process is being obedient to what God has placed in my heart. To do that I need to……WRITE IT DOWN. So, I wrote out the passage in the margin of my study guide. As I wrote it out the Holy Spirit gave me the following  revelations about how this passage applies to me!

v24) God rescued me from a life of sin, hurt, anguish fear and strife. He brought me to a place to call my own.

v25) He saved me, washed away my sins and changed my focus to worship Him alone.

v26) He changed my heart (work in progress) by showing me His love. He changed the inner me and broke down the wall I had around my heart of stone. He is giving me the heart of Jesus, one day at a time.

v27) He gave me the Holy Spirit to guide me in His ways and on His path.

v28) I will live in the places he gives me. He is my God and I am His daughter!

v29) He will save me (forgive me) when I confess my sin. He provides for me in abundance even when things look bad all around me.

v30) He will increase the fruit of the Spirit. I will have an increase of love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control.

v31) I will remember my old self and know that I have sinned. I will remember my sin to use as my testimony of the results of a life going down my own path instead of His path.

v32) God changed me, saved me, rescued me, and blesses me in great abundance in ways above any I can think or imagine……But I must realize…..IT’S NOT ABOUT ME!

It’s about HIM, about HIS work in me for the benefit of others so that they can have it too!

Praise the LORD. He blesses my heart of stone every day! I can feel the mortar cracking 🙂

Ezekiel 36:24-32 (NIV)

24 “‘For I will take you out of the nations; I will gather you from all the countries and bring you back into your own land. 25 I will sprinkle clean water on you, and you will be clean; I will cleanse you from all your impurities and from all your idols. 26 I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit in you; I will remove from you your heart of stone and give you a heart of flesh. 27 And I will put my Spirit in you and move you to follow my decrees and be careful to keep my laws. 28 Then you will live in the land I gave your ancestors; you will be my people, and I will be your God. 29 I will save you from all your uncleanness. I will call for the grain and make it plentiful and will not bring famine upon you. 30 I will increase the fruit of the trees and the crops of the field, so that you will no longer suffer disgrace among the nations because of famine. 31 Then you will remember your evil ways and wicked deeds, and you will loathe yourselves for your sins and detestable practices. 32 I want you to know that I am not doing this for your sake, declares the Sovereign Lord. Be ashamed and disgraced for your conduct, people of Israel!

A Prayer for Spirtual Wisdom and Growth

The more I read the letters of the Apostle Paul to early churches, the more his prayers are highlighted within my heart. He loved Jesus so very much and he loved the people of the church with such passion. His letters are full of prayers that should be etched on our hearts for each other.

The following prayer is adapted from Ephesians 1:15-23 and 3:14-21.

A Prayer of Spiritual Wisdom and growth for Victory Family Church

All praise and glory, to our Father God and our Lord Jesus Christ, who have blessed us, with every spiritual blessing, because God made us to be His family!

God, I thank you for my church family and the people you have brought into my life. Thank you for their faith in Jesus and the love they demonstrate for your people.

I pray, Father, for each and every one of the people of VFC, including myself, that You, our generous, merciful and loving God will give us, spiritual wisdom and insight so that we grow in knowledge of You.

I pray that our hearts are open, receptive and flooded with light so that we can be confident in the hope that you have given to those you have chosen to be your holy people, rich and glorious in the inheritance through Jesus Christ.

I pray, Father, that we understand your incredible power for us who believe.
I pray that we would know, understand and BELIEVE that the same power that raised Jesus from the dead dwells in us! That this same power that gave Jesus all authority, far above any ruler or authority, in this world or the world to come, has also been given to us.

I pray that we grow, like Jesus did when he was on earth, in favor of God and man so that the work you have assigned to us is fully completed.

In the awesome name of our Lord Jesus Christ, to God be the glory.


In preparation for an upcoming Beth Moore Bible Study on 1 & 2 Thessalonians, I decided to read Acts 16 and 17 to get a feel of the setting.

In doing so, Acts 17:26 caught my attention.

“and He made from one man every nation of mankind to live on all the face of the earth, having determined their appointed times and the boundaries of their habitation”. ACTS 17:26 NASB

Once in a while, something happens or something crosses my mind and I wonder how in the world I got where I am and why. Am I where I am supposed to be, doing what I am supposed to do? Then a Scripture like Acts 17:26 pops in the picture.This scripture made me realize that I am exactly where God made me to be!

I have entrusted Him with my life and in knowing that, I know that I was born at the right time, to the parents I was meant to have, in the land I was meant to love, to do what I was meant to do.

I couldn’t help but stop and praise God. I know that throughout my life I have made choices that were not in the will of God, and I have suffered through many of those choices. However, through it all, God has blessed me… more than I realize and definitely so much more than I ever deserved. And through it all, I know that I am exactly where I am supposed to be at this particular time doing what I am meant to do. Oh, the peace that brings to my soul!

Father, you have my life. You have my heart. Guide me so that I will always be where you want me to be, doing what you want me to do for Your Kingdom purposes. Amen.


I love reading and studying The a Word of God. I just love everything about it. I love reading it, I love reading about it, and I love reading the stories of the people in it!

Spending time in Gods Word is spending time with Him! I treasure these moments because I love Him so much.

My prayer for everyone who sees this post is that they also fall head over heels in love with it……. And Him.

Here are a just a few reasons why:

It is God breathed (inspired). 2 Timothy 3:16
It cannot be broken. John 10:35
It is settled in Heaven FOREVER. Psalm 119:89
In its entirety, it is truth. Psalm 119:160
It teaches, rebukes and trains. 2 Timothy 3:16
It makes me complete and equipped, 2 Timothy 3:17
It is my spiritual food. 1 Peter 2:22
It gives me joy and rejoicing. Jeremiah 15:16
It helps me live a clean life. Psalm 119:9
It helps me to not sin against God. Psalm 119:11
It makes me strong. 1 John 2:14
It makes me overcome the wicked one. 1 John 2:14
It is my lamp and my light. Psalm 119:105
It is health to my flesh. Proverbs 4:20-22
It cleanses me. John 15:3
It builds me up and gives me an inheritance. Acts 20:32
It helps me show Jesus that I love him, if I hear it and do what it says. Luke 8:21


Its amazing how reading one thing about the Bible makes you think of other things in the Bible. Often they appear to be unrelated until you uncover the mystery within. No matter what you are reading or studying in the Bible, God has a way of speaking to your heart and reminding you of a promise, reminding you that all is well. I just Love that about Him.

While reading The New American Commentary on the Book of Matthew, I came across Matthew 8:20 where Jesus tells the scribe that wants to follow him “ Foxes have holes and birds of the air have nests, but the Son of Man has no place to lay his head.”

The commentary explains that Jesus knew the scribe did not understand the commitment it would take to follow him. Jesus had a home in Capernaum but he was rarely there. Besides, on a deeper level, the followers of Jesus know that this earth is only a temporary home.  Our citizenship is in Heaven (Phil 3:20). The commentary goes on to say that we are sojourners (exiles) in this world. (1 Peter 1:1).

So, reading of being an exile made me think of one of my favorite passages,  Jeremiah 29:11-14. So many of us read Jeremiah 29:11 and stop. We even have it etched on our hearts.But the three verses that follow just make 29:11 pop! They bring pure joy to my heart! They gave me a peace that I never thought possible. Three times in these four verses it says “Declares the LORD”.  That makes what is written so powerful.  God never breaks a promise! NEVER.

Read these verses, memorize them,  and find the peace that comes from them.

Jeremiah 29:11-14

New International Version (NIV)

11 For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.

12 Then you will call on me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you.

13 You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart.

14 I will be found by you,” declares the Lord, “and will bring you back from captivity.[a] I will gather you from all the nations and places where I have banished you,” declares the Lord, “and will bring you back to the place from which I carried you into exile.”


Most of us who believe in Jesus believe who he says he is and that he can do what the Bible says he can do and we believe all that was written about him.

But often, we doubt when the need becomes personal.

I was reminded today, or most likely, it was brought to my attention today what answers prayer! FAITH. We know Jesus can do it, we just doubt sometimes that he will do it for our personal needs.

To the woman with the issue of blood he said in Luke 8:48 NLT “Daughter”, he said to her “your faith has made you well. Go in peace” . She was made well.

To Jairus, whose daughter had just died Jesus said in Luke 8:50 NLT “Don’t be afraid. Just have faith, and she will be healed.” And she was!

To the blind men in Matthew 9:27-34 NLT Jesus asked them “Do you believe I can make you see? Yes Lord, they told him, we do. Then He touched their eyes and said, because of your faith, it will happen”. And it did.

Jesus heals, but it is our faith that makes it happen.

Rejoice my friend, believe and have faith! Don’t worry! Give thanks and praise …….and believe!

Lord, I believe in you, increase my faith and heal me from any unbelief.

The Sword

The Word, Gods Word, The sword of the Spirit


The sword is the only weapon in the full armor of God that is both defensive and offensive.

Five of the six weapons in Ephesians 6:14-17 are mostly defensive weapons. The belt of truth protects us from the lies of the devil, the breastplate of righteousness protects our heart, the shoes of peace protect us from negative attitudes, the shield of faith protects us from the devils fiery arrows and the helmet of salvation protects our mind from the thoughts the enemy sends our way.

If you had a sword, a beautiful and mighty sword that you displayed on your wall, it’s no good to you, when the enemy walks in the door if it’s on your wall.  By the time you get it down, the enemy has already won the battle. 

And that’s the way the Bible is. It’s no good to you if all it does is sit on a shelf or on your night stand gathering dust and it’s rarely opened. It doesn’t do any good when you need it to fight the enemy.

Say you have a sword and you want to learn to use it. Let’s imagine it’s a big, thick, heavy sword like you see in the movies of Biblical times or the times of gladiators.

When you first pick it up and try to swing it or jab it a couple of times, your arms get tired and you give up and you say “that’s too hard”.  But you pick it back up and  the more you practice with it and the more you  learn you to stand properly and your posture’s right and you start swinging it a couple of times a day, pretty soon you learn to use it. You learn to do it just right; you learn to use it to block blows from the opponent. You learn to strike. You can use it as defense and you can use it as an offense to attack.

The same is with the Word of God. If you open it just a little bit today and just get the feel of it; then tomorrow  you pick it up again and  you do it some more and then a little bit more, you will soon find that  not only can you hold it,  it’s actually become useful. You stand right, (in the Word of God), you have your posture just right (in Jesus) and before you know it, you’re a warrior!

You have that sword and you don’t want to be without it. It goes everywhere you go, in your heart, and any time the enemy comes at you, you have it there for defense. You have it there for protection or attack when you see the enemy hurting others around you. When you see him headed your way, you stand ready and you go after him and you chase him away because he knows you know how to use that sword.

Let’s open our Bibles and be the warriors we are meant to be!


One of the homework assignments this week  in the study of the Apostle Paul centered on his voyage to Rome. Paul’s “Umbrella of Faith” in the storm covered all that were on board the ship and all the lives were saved when the ship was destroyed as it ran aground on the island of Malta. After that, many on the island became believers and were healed.

I have an umbrella. For the most part, it rides in my car behind the seat. Often, when it’s raining, I leave it in the car and dash to the building hoping I don’t get drenched or I carry it without opening it, because it’s really not raining that hard.

How often do we treat our faith that way? We have it; we just don’t use it like it is meant to be used. We carry it along in case it’s needed but we never open it. We jump out in the middle of a storm, thinking we can handle it  on our own or we think it’s not bad enough to bother Jesus about.

We need to open our faith umbrellas! Rain or shine. They cover us when life is raining down on us and they keep us cool and calm in the sunshine.

The beginning of faith is like a little paper umbrella in a fancy drink. It’s not very big. Then, as we study God’s Word and we place it in our hearts, the umbrella of faith grows and begins to cover us.  Soon, we notice that our umbrella is quite large and we have family members, friends and even a stranger or two under there with us.

This made me think of my church. When it’s raining or, like last week, sleeting, you can see volunteers walking out, with large umbrellas, offering protection from the elements to those coming in and going out. What an awesome metaphor of how our church family covers each other and those we come in contact with, in faith.

Umbrellas: I don’t think I will ever look at them in the same way, ever again.